A worry that plagued me, when I was already knee deep in writing, was that my story was revealing a self-centered narcissist. Gazing at the pages, I’d see nothing but rows… and ROWS of vertical lines.
I, I, I… it’s all about ME!
That’s the enemy talking. He’s forever whispering in my ear… telling me to stop doing the very things that are helping me recover. Call him what you will; the devil, the flesh, or maybe a twisted merging of the two… the mind.
Writing is therapeutic. Writing opens up your mind, and brings hidden things to the surface. The best advice I could ever offer anyone, aside from Seek God, is…
Writing (or perhaps I should call it journaling) is like a treasure hunt. Thoughts surface, questions come to mind, and incredible hints and clues appear on the page… right in front of your eyes.
Yesterday, something in my post The Big Picture did exactly that. I found a clue!
“… by becoming someone that I was not. You know…a people pleaser. Give them what they want. Tell them what they want to hear. Be who THEY want you to be. The problem here is that I’m now not even sure who THEY were.
As I typed that last sentence- I wasn’t sure where it came from, and it didn’t make much sense, but I knew that I couldn’t delete it. I had to go back to it. It was telling me something.
Of course, everyone’s story is unique. But in my story… the truth that I’m learning, the thing that continually surfaces- and catapults me over hurdles- is that there IS no THEY. It’s all in my mind.
My enemy is ME.
For forty some years… that vertical line that now fills the pages of the story, was my victim. I’ve beaten her up, knocked her down… again and again, and towards the end… I’m quite certain that I was trying to kill her!
THAT is why I write about her; because I owe her that much. I’m TRULY sorry for what I’ve put her through…
And it’s time that I allow her to heal.
The picture is from Turquoise Lake in Colorado. It was actually just five miles from where we lived. I’m forever grateful that I got two years in that beautiful state. God is great, Life is good, and Recovery is awesome! Stay encouraged!